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COUPLES COUNSELING,
marriage
counseling, sex therapy, relationship counseling, couples therapy, pre-marital counseling, pre-marriage coaching
and family therapy
The various forms of couples, marriage,
pre-marriage and family counseling
are especially effective when using
the holistic concepts and medication-free methods of natural psychotherapy.
BUILDING LOVE AND TRUST:
The focus of this natural approach is to seek - honestly and gently - new,
realistic perspectives
and new ways of interaction
in order to build (or re-build) love and trust in the couple's ways
of relating.
And the building of love and trust is, of course, important
and focused on
in natural therapy whether the couple has minor or very serious
problems.
Whether a couple is living together or separately, considering
getting married, engaged, unmarried or married for a short or long time, without children,
or with children and family - love and trust are what it's
all about.
Multi-cultural, multi-national, life-style,
or family issues which may interfere with
mutual respect and acceptance of each other's unique ways of
thinking and doing things are always constructively
dealt with.
In order to develop and
maintain love and trust, the following are always included:
Sex
therapy, stress
management, anger management, relationship therapy, conflict resolution, communication improvement
and intimacy enhancement.
As couples start achieving true caring for
themselves as well as the other, they become
able to
bring long-term spiritual satisfaction and closeness into their lives.
Sexual passion, which may have died due to inner
resentments, anger or guilt,
comes alive again. Sex addictions and
sexual compulsions become resolved.
Sexual attraction returns
or gets awakened for the first time. And not only stays, but grows
and becomes more and more exciting!
They actually find out how to move
to a
constructive, intimate and joyful life together.
For
CONTACT INFORMATION
please click here.
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HOW DOES NATURAL COUPLES THERAPY ACTUALLY WORK?
1) IT
BRINGS GREATER AWARENESS AND NEW WAYS:
The natural approach of couples therapy,
pre-marriage counseling, marriage counseling and family therapy includes
becoming aware of and then learning how to give up old,
automatic and destructive viewpoints and ways of behaving and communicating.
One of the main aims of a natural and holistic psychotherapist, marriage
counselor or family therapist is to help each person achieve
inner
emotional balance as well as balance in one's interactions with others.
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NEW WAYS OF RELATING
In natural therapy, most couples and families with relationship problems - even the
most severe and distressing - develop new ways of relating to
each other:
They learn why it is
always important to be both honest and kind to
each other!
And in order to be able to achieve
such interaction, they learn how to consistently:
(1) communicate clearly, calmly and
candidly
and simultaneously
(2) express love and kindness to each other
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2) NATURAL COUPLES THERAPY ALSO INCLUDES RESOLUTION OF PERSONAL ISSUES:
Emotionally charged, personal issues that may interfere with good
interactions can also be explored through individual, personal
sessions, in addition to the joint couples or family sessions.
For such individual therapy sessions please click here.
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Each person learns how to develop new
perspectives and enhance constructive styles of living with each other.
Each learns how to maintain her or his
individuality while moving from the concept of just
"I" to the new concept of "We."
Each learns how to take the
perspective of the other and enhance the capacity to make joint,
constructive decisions that consider and respect one's own desires
as well as the desires of the other.
And also, on matters that concern both partners,
unilateral decisions are abandoned as rational and practical joint decision-making becomes the regular way.
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3) THE FOCUS IS ON THE PRESENT AND
ON THE ABSENCE OF BLAME:
In natural therapy couples find out - often, for the first time - how
liberating it is to give up regret, blame and emotional outbursts.
They learn how to relate to each other
constructively and calmly in the here and now:
Without emotional flare-ups over a
past that cannot be changed or worry about a future
that is always unknown.
They learn how to actually attain and maintain a
loving, intimate, emotionally enriching and truly satisfying relationship.
SCHEDULING AN APPOINTMENT for
COUPLES COUNSELING:
To schedule a couples therapy session
please click here.
(For more
general information about natural psychotherapy,
please click here.)
The
important thing is to get
started on the road to a more
satisfying life together!
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